Let's face it. Meltdowns are usually not much fun. Drool does make a mess. Most Dads I've met love to throw their sons up in the air because it's how they can get them to belly laugh and that usually doesn't sit well with moms. Toddlers need extra attention and actually...they typically demand it. And it's hard to be enough for everyone in the family at the same time when the baby is crying, the toddler is tantrum-ing and both parents are just ready for a break.
Life with babies and toddlers are stressful, tiring and full of moments when we think we may not make it to tomorrow. Being on the other side of that stage in life, I can tell you this...don't wish it away. Don't miss all the beauty in the chaos. It's a little difficult to manage some days, sure. But these days are rich. Enjoy the reality of where you are with your kids and family and smile.
A wise friend once told me, "I just keep reminding myself, I'm gonna miss this". Having that perspective in the midst of the chaos creates joy and gratitude for the moment. We can all use a healthy dose of that!
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Okay, now. You'll notice there are not one but TWO new additions to the family. Creed joined the family in January last year, then we welcomed baby Everson just a few short months ago in April. If you missed it and you're the cyber nosy type, have a peek at Creed's first year of life by clicking here. Not to worry...Everson's will be ready soon enough. She's 3 months old as I'm posting this.
The decision to adopt is bold, scary, brave, exciting, nerve-racking, an emotional roller coaster, momentous, fulfilling, hard, stressful and filled with all sorts of happiness. I've witnessed this family going through both adoptions and it has brought me to the conclusion that adopting is so crazy similar to deciding to have a baby. The emotions, anticipation and planning are all relatively the same...well, not the same but they weigh out the same. Does that make sense? The thing about adoption is...it gives a little life hope. A chance. An opportunity to be surrounded with a family who wants to love them on purpose and bring them up in a home where they can have opportunities.
What a beautiful milestone, to welcome a new little being into a family. I'm grateful to have been given a gift to share with others to document times such as this.
If you are in the processing of adopting, would you drop us a line to let us know? We would love to pray for your process and your new baby, as well as hear your story and document your first family portrait for you as a gift for giving life to a little one. We're excited to hear from you!
What a crazy fun family! Talk about up for whatever...((notice the last image)). Obviously, when the weather is 200 degrees, this is a shoe in shot. :)
Being around them, there is a beautiful sense of connection and strong family bonds. Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Love this shoot...the character of the place and the characters in the place. Just perfect.
This family is so genuine, precious and lovely. Have you ever met someone who listens so well that you feel like you just want to pour your heart out to them? Yeah, me either. Especially not me and the mom of this family. ;)
I love being around people who are so comfortable with themselves they make you feel comfortable. That's how I would describe them. Yep. Good peeps.
Sounds like the name of a fun little cartoon show. I'll tell ya this, I laughed at these kids more than I would a cartoon. They were so silly, so funny yet so sweet and kind to one another. If I know the mom, she is rolling her eyes at that statement right now, but honestly...it's rare to see three kids at these ages get along so well. They are super kids....just a true testament to fantastic parents!